Men and their Love(Like)/Hate relationship with hoes...

 

I'm going to make a statement that isn't going to be very popular with women: Hoes are necessary. I always see women downing hoes and saying how much they hate them but truth be told some of them are hoes too....they're just in denial. I think women are confused because they associate sex with love and men don't. 

A man can HATE a woman and still find her sexually desirable. We see it like sports thats the reason why some men refer to sex as "scoring". Sex is no different from a pickup basketball game-its fun, relieves stress, and is good exercise. Women on the other hand usually get emotionally attached to whoever they have sex with. So when men say "We don't love them hoes" We really mean it. You might see men kickin it with them but it isn't out of love. 

Where the average woman will make us wait just to prove their purity, hoes have sex whenever they get the urge. Men know this so most times we play along and then find a freak so we can get what we want. The thing is these freaky, easy women are usually egotistical, self important and scandalous....men just TOLERATE it. Today as I type there are a bunch of confused sluts wondering why they can't find a man to hold them, love them and put a ring on their finger. They figure they're sexy, desirable, know how to fuck and have been told by men how cool they are(lies). 

The problem is we only LIKE them....and liking someone isn't enough to treat them like a spouse. 

But fuck it, I'm tired of typing PEACE

The Cycle continues...

 

There's a scene in the movie "Baby Boy" where Ving Rhames(I forget his name in the movie) is telling a young Jody about the concept of "guns and butter" He said(I'm paraphrasing) That the guns is the stuff that appreciates in value(stocks and bonds, property, fine art) and the butter is all the stuff that will melt or depreciate in value(cars, clothes, customized jewelry). Its one of my favorite parts of the movie.

Of course I don't mean this in the literal sense. I don't want people going out and building an armory and getting indicted(T.I. style). I'm asking people to just use their brains when it comes to money management. I feel like black youth today are more concerned with LOOKING rich than actually being wealthy. Now we all like nice things and jewelry is cool but do people really need a custom Kellogs Cornflakes box chain? Say this guy in above picture gets low on money or is just tired of being a walking advertisement.....does that shit really have any resale value? I mean would you buy that...even if was only like 5 bucks?lol

I'm also like most people and like certain brands and designers(if you want to get my something for my upcoming birthday buy me some Polo.)but I just don't understand how someone could be broke and still be head to toe in their favorite fashion label. I think the problem is broke-ness isn't something people like to admit-to themselves or others-so they just ignore it and spend to look like they have doe. Everybody nowadays is "gettin money" but thats a lie in the same way that every girl says she's only slept with 3 guys and every man says he can only fit Magnums.lol

Not to be pretentious....all I'm saying don't try to keep up with the Joneses' becuase the Joneses' are usually in DEBT. 

In the zone....

Now for the record....NO I'm not a Yankees fan(Mets all day). This is from a World Series game vs. the Dodgers where Reggie Jackson hit THREE homeruns off three different pitchers on three consecutive pitches.  He was in the zone that night.

We've all had a point in our lives where we felt like everything was clicking. Our money was right women were feeling us and we had nice rides. Maybe it wasn't even that drastic for some of us.....maybe it only a really good stretch of days or months...or it could've been just ONE great day. If you're like me.....you want to know what was behind it so you can have more days like that. You retrace your steps, see what you ate that day(or during time period), what movies you may have watched or what songs could've inspired you to be that focused.

In the book "Think and Grow Rich"(that I'm currently reading) it tells you to think of a time when you had success. Thats proof that success is possible. So when you want to get back into that zone I think its most important to just remember how you FELT. Because most likely these great times were when you were younger and more open and willing to take risks(within reason). It really had nothing to do with the car you drove, the food you ate, the chick you were with....but it was your attitude and mind state.

Lately I've been giving thought to meditation and visualizations because I want to control the "zone". I'm willing to look into it if it gives me a mental edge.....

But anyway I'm tired of typing. Peace

Friends with benefits? Does it work?

Before you even get the thought into your head.....NO I do not intend on watching this film.lol But seeing the trailer for it made me contemplate the whole "friends with benefits" thing. I started to think about the positives, negatives and possible outcomes of a FWB agreement.

For one I've yet to meet a woman who will admit to wanting to be a part of or ever being involved in a FWB relationship. I've actually had women tell me that I had better not be expecting one because it wasn't gonna happen. I know they exist though(shhhh.lol) so that tells me its an unspoken thing. I don't know if women that are involved in them are in denial or they just wanna keep it quiet. I'm guessing its the latter....because I know women don't want the word going around and every dude they meet from that point on only wanting sex.(Its bad enough as it is for women with that)

Whats the best way to keep it strictly physical and keep emotions out of it? Is that even possible? Women connect emotions to sex and men are very territorial so it would be pretty difficult to keep it on  "friends" only terms. I personally think the only way it can work is if both people lack the time and energy for a real full time relationship. Just because you're busy doesn't mean that portion of your life has to be missing. For example if a woman is working and going to school and a man works crazy hours....then it can definitely work.

So if both participants know what it is and its the best thing for both of them....then its definitely doable. But I'm tired of typing....

How big is too big?.....The age old question

I saw this advertisement on a forum not too long ago, for those that don't know this is Lisa Raye's daughter-Kai Morae. I thought to myself...."I'm not really sure if she's 'model material'." Then I played the game that most if not all men play in their minds whenever they see a woman....the "would you" game. It didn't take more than 15 seconds to decide that yes I would....and I would enjoy it.lol

She's a big girl.....but I ain't gonna lie I would take her around town without shame.Which makes me wonder if she were bigger would I feel the same way? Is she the limit? Now before all the thick/plus sized/bigger women get all angry......ask yourself...do you have height requirements? Yup...you probably do so you have no room to talk.lol

So how big is too big? Well for me that's not a black and white numerical answer. It depends on a few different variables. Personality-I know what you're thinking..."You're so full of shit!" but I wish more women would realize that a great personality goes a LONG way and can turn a 5 into a 7. If a woman has a pleasant attitude and is respectful they get major points. Does she have a pretty face? I don't like a woman of any size with an ugly mug....but I've seen some very pretty bigger women....and it made me forget about the weight.lol Last but certainly not least....Her shape. If a woman has curves in all the right places and is proportioned the right way then its all good.

So any women out there that have asked that question but never felt they got a "real" or honest answer...there you go. This is my honest opinion on it. But I'm tired of typing.....Peace.

So much wrong with this minute long clip.....lol

If my girl was built like a brick shit house I wouldn't let her go out like that....so I DEFINITELY wouldn't let her get anywhere near a group of rappers. She knew what she was doing when she put that outfit on. Women know the effect that spandex pants have on men(and the way it makes their asses and thighs look perfect.)
Not only that but her cleavage was out(a personal favorite of mine)....what did she expect?

But the other part of the video is the way these guys act when they see her. You would think they'd never seen a good looking girl before. The only one that kept his composure was French(the light skinned dude if you don't know) he just calmly called her over and posed for the picture. The other guys lost their minds. One dude even went as far as to lick his finger and slide it down her breast(I would've wanted to do that but I wouldn't have acted on it.lol) Its obvious that dude isn't used to being around women(pretty ones at least) because he didn't know how to act. Guys like this ruin it for the rest of us.....How can I approach a woman who has had men act like that in her presence? She'll be too cynical to even listen to what I'm saying.

And her man.....He looks like one of them black talking white dudes and he's with HER?! Whenever I see them type of dudes(wiggers) with bad spanish broads(like the one in this video)it burns my soul.lol Why did he let her approach 10 dudes dressed like that? If I was a rapper and a woman looking like that came up to me I would think she was a groupie(Its just the way I think. Sue me). Then he proceeds to yell at them and they start copping pleas(???) They don't really get loud till he's out camera-shot....

What a cluster-fuck.

But I'm tired of typing.

Womens' dating site profile demands....

This post is going to be a little short but its something that I want to get off my chest. I've been on a few dating sites here and there to see what was out there outside of the club scene. Apparently its high standards and low quality. I've seen profiles that said stuff like...."I want a man that is over 6 feet tall, drives a luxury car, makes six figures, and looks like Will Smith......I know I look like Precious but if you can't accept that then look elsewhere....and I have 5 kids so you have to like children."

Now keep in mind I'm trying to AVOID hoodrats....but they've even infiltrated dating sites. How delusional can someone be to make crazy demands and have NOTHING to offer? Another favorite of mine is when women (of ALL races) make sure to specify...."No black guys" or "No ghetto people". The funniest is when I see thick or big women say this.....my question to them is if you don't date black men then WHO is checking for you? (Yeah I just said that) That seems like a harsh statement to make but ask yourself....what kind of men appreciate thicker women?(Exactly.lol) I don't think some of these women are thinking things through like that.

I've talked to women who told me the flimsiest lie I've ever heard..."I'm single but I live with my EX....we don't have sex its just that we split the rent." Ladies....how stupid do you think men are? If you still have feelings for your EX....stay the fuck away from me or any other good men trying to better themselves.

And I know there will be women who say...."Oh I do the things he says and I still have men hollerin at me." Keep in mind as a woman its not hard to get sex.....but the question is do you have a ring? Can you find a man to "wife" you?


But fuck it I'm tired of typing.


Shout out to Tariq Nasheed
for puttin me up on some game and helping me navigate this CRAZY modern dating scene. BUY HIS BOOK.
The Mack Within